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I’m married and in love with my friend’s wife.
I'm currently married, however there is another woman that I love. She's my good buddy's girlfriend. She always tells me how unhappy she is with him and how they are going to break up soon. It drives me nuts to see him treat her so badly when I know I would cherish her. She and I are very similar and I think we'd get along together well. I want to tell her how I feel about her, but I don't know how she'll respond. I feel that I must tell her because it is driving me crazy inside and she will be graduating college this year and going back to her hometown. I'm so confused about what to do. Should I tell her how I feel or just let it go and be miserable with myself?
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what about your wife?
Tell her now or you will regret this down the road if you sincerely feel that she feels the same way. There’s nothing wrong with being rejected, and at last you’ll get closure on the subject. Maybe she feels the same way and you have stepped up and alleviated the trouble of her trying to convey how she feels as well. DO IT!
I am also married (11 years) and have recently began a relationship with my best friend’s wife. I know that this is wrong, on both are parts. I love my wife, but am not in love with my wife. There’s a big difference. With this particular girl, I have feelings that have re-surfaced that I must have forgotten about some time ago. My best friend’s wife and I have disclosed our feelings for one another through talking, e-mail and texting. We both feel the same way about each other but unfortunately we have our “families” to think about. I have one child and she has three. Any disruption due to our passion for one another would upset the home life of these kids (not to mention our spouses). However we are both unhappy in our marriages and want to be with one another so bad. We are both confused and are not sure if we should just say this will pass and to stop now, but I believe we’re past that point now. Ah, the tangled webs we weave. Confused as hell.
I just recently seperated with my wife of 19 years due to an afair that was discovered by my buddy that I had feelings and was in love with his wife. She is still trying to tell him that she feels the same way but feels tremendous guilt. Its been 6 Days. She is asking me to give her time as she needs to prepare her two children. I have a daughter 11 and a son 14
Wow..i totally am in the same boat
i do not want this to go bad..so im taking it slow
she knows i have these feelings and she feels the same..i love my wife but i am not in love with her..i love my buddys wife more than words can ever say ..but we both are still married for now for the kids ..just dont want to screw up them..but i cant live my life just being content..my heart totally
loves her..the thing is it just happened –and she has been a part of my life for about 9 years..then
bamb it hit me like a ton of bricks..never knew how flipping strong true love was until now..
and i am not gonna sit my ass around to find out if it could happen again ..because i know everthing about this angel ..its wierd..she makes me a better person and that is a great feeling..
we both have mutual friends ..that at first probably will just not understand..but that will sort it self out though .. my hope is that my wife
will not hate me forever..and her husband hate her..
this really sucks because all i think about is when
the day will come that we can be together forever..
what do i do???
more to the saga..
for those of you out there who think im just crazy
i gotta tell ya
i have i guess in some ways have for 9 years had an attraction to this wonderful woman but never really thought of it like that which is good i guess because im married and shoudn’t but when these feeling came to me ..i cant help it at all…we havent made love or anything yet and we have decided not to..it would completly be over the top amazing..so im just taking it day by day..until our paths cross..when we get our current lifes figured out ..the kids and the big D ..i will not go another year unhappy..
This is the way things should be, get off what we are on now
1st-being in love is not a feeling it is a lifelong commitment.
-Of course we will have feelings for other people, just like you did when you first started dating your wife/husband. Dont give up, you can make it work, its not too late.
-16For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
-unconditional love gives even when the other person has nothing to give.
Start a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and watch His love transform you so that you can love others in the true sense of the word