I wish my ex husband would admit

I wish my ex would just be honest and admit he's not interested in ...being a dad. He doesn't know the first thing about his own kids. Not their middle names, nothing. ...he didn't even call for his youngest son's birthday. He has to pay child support- big deal. That doesn't mean you stay absent all year and then assume you've 'bought' your way into your child's life whenever it's convenient. He alienated himself with his rants over the phone but EVERYTHING in his life is my fault? Before we moved, I hadn't even TALKED to him in ten years. When we originally split he went back to his mom's and that's where he's been EVER SINCE. And she's a manipulative bitch too. She's one of those lesbians that spends all her time fighting with her drug addicted partner. I mean the woman dropped her son, my ex, off at her brothers house when he was six years old saying she was going shopping and didn't show back up FOR THREE FUCKING YEARS. Because she was a skankoid bitch now her son thinks EVERY woman is a skankoid bitch- THAT'S why we aren't married anymore. I didn't want my sons to think that it was ok for men to belittle and verbally abuse women the way he did me. I did not, in twenty years, want to see my sons repeating the same behavior.

Every time he goes on a penchant and acts out, I clean up the mess with the kids' psyches. The nightmares, the crying, the tears, the confusion. Why can't he just leave us alone? Why do abusers think they are entitled to exact their nastiness on others? Why are they always surprised NO ONE invites them to be 'Prom King'? Do they actually think others revere them for hurting them? What's so special about being an ASSHOLE?

I just want him gone. Let us live in peace. But he can't. He doesn't know how to do anything without hurting others. For him pain is normal- and we should thank him for it.

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