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I met a guy as I was leaving the club and I was really attracted to him.
I'm writing this, b/c I hope someone will respond. I met a guy as I was leaving the club and I was really attracted to him. We went out with some of his friends for breakfast, then we went back to my house, and we ended up in my bed. I kept telling myself and him that I was not going to have sex with him. I really wanted to, but I had just met him, and besides, I was already sleeping with 2 other men. As the foreplay went on, i kept telling him that I was not going to have sex with him. Then we were both completely undressed ans he took out a condom, as he began to open it I asked why he was putting the condom on since I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him. He said he was just putting it on. After he had it on and started kissing me again, I told him again that I wasn't having sex with him, and he told me that he didn't want me to feel like that, which really didn't make sense to me. Then he put his finger in my mouth and and kept pushing it in farther as he put his dick in me. We had sex four times that night/morning. The sex was great, and we'll probably continue to have sex with each other. But, I did tell him that I wasn't going to have sex with him, and he kept going. But then again, I let him. I probably could have stopped him if I really wanted to. Then he put his finger in my mouth to get me to be quiet while he entered me. And I think i got turned on even more when he did that and I started sucking on his finger. And he was really gentle the whole time, and kept asking me if I was ok, and he kept telling me that he wanted to hear me. But still I told him that I wasn't having sex with him. I guess I'm just wondering, would that be considered rape. I would never try to press charges or anything either way, cause I enjoyed it, and I think if I really wanted him to stop I would have stopped him, and I probably would not have even let him come in my house. But, I still think it may be considered rape. And I think there may b something wrong with me b/c I'm turned on by the whole situation. Someone please let me know your opinion.
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Hey dumbass, you weren’t raped!
Hey Anonymous, I can totally understand your confusion, but I can for sure tell you that you were not raped. I think your confusion came from the fact that you were thinking something different than you were thinking, you are right: if you would have really, really wanted, you could have stopped him (unless he was a true rapist). Sex is a mysterious force, the fact that you enjoyed it should not be confused with the fact that you want to be raped, it only means that somewhere inside of you, there is a fantasy about it, which is completely normal and much more common than you suspect. It was just a fantasy that you experienced with someone that you really liked, there is nothing wrong with you, don’t worry!!!…
You sure were not raped. You know the saying: “maybe means yes and no means maybe”. Girls don’t like to be called whores so even though they like what they’re doing they are trying to appear innocent (“a dick? what’s that?”). They guy would have stopped if you pushed him out of the bed but you just said “no” and kept playing with him which in our language is called “teasing”.
PS: Check out: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rcbchRnTTr4
That guy had no respect for your feelings. He’s a loser.
But he knew you had no respect for your own feelings so you wouldn’t stop him.
That’s not rape.
Around here, we have a word for that what that was.
It’s called “Saturday Night”.
–RaymondPistachio@gmail.com
If you didn’t want sex with him, what the hell were you doing in bed with hi. Youy said you already sleep with 2 other men. Get over your self. You’re a nutcase running around loose.